“Loneliness is not a personal failing”: 十大网赌平台推荐卫生 psychologist offers advice for forging connection, 感觉好多了

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Loneliness is an emotional signal that tells you to go find someone to 跟, 参与社区活动, and serve others—even if you think it will be hard.

安德鲁J. 史密斯博士

在一年中最冷的时候, northern New Englanders tend to spend more time indoors and turn in early—and that can be a little lonely. The COVID-19 pandemic also forced all of us to spend more time in isolation, with many of us still getting less human interaction than we used to as a lot of office jobs shifted to a work-from-home model.

Alone time can be relaxing and energizing, but too much can have negative impacts. 去年,美国.S. 卫生局局长Vivek Murthy说, MD, issued a public health advisory about the dangers of loneliness, saying it impacts half of all American adults.

“If you are among those suffering, the antidote to your loneliness could be closer and more accessible than you think,安德鲁说。. 史密斯博士, a psychologist at 十大网赌平台推荐卫生’s Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center, who recently co-authored a study on how social connectedness can help improve health. “No doubt, loneliness can have far-reaching effects on a person’s life. 但 loneliness is not a personal failing. Loneliness is an emotional signal that tells you to go find someone to 跟, 参与社区活动, and serve others—even if you think it will be hard.”

Studies show myriad impacts of prolonged loneliness and social isolation on our health, leading to increased risk for cardiovascular disease, 免疫功能紊乱, 失眠, 中风, 痴呆, 抑郁症, 焦虑, 甚至更早死亡. Loneliness can not only impact your emotional wellbeing, it can make you feel worse about yourself and your perceived prospects for a meaningful life.

If you feel you are suffering from loneliness, ask yourself some questions:

  • Are you having trouble in your relationship with loved ones?
  • Do you feel disconnected from the wider world?
  • 你在回避朋友吗??
  • Do you feel “less than” others?
  • Are you afraid of feeling judged or rejected?
  • Are you avoiding social situations?

If you answer “yes” to any of these, you may benefit from taking proactive measures to forge or strengthen your relationships. It’s important to remember while seeking help that everyone feels lonely at times, and getting help is a sign of strength, 没有弱点.

“Loneliness is not a mark of special social incompetence, 无价值, 或者是某种可悲,史密斯说. “Even your doctors, clergy, partners and friends feel lonely sometimes. What loneliness does mean is that you and the people in your life could benefit from you finding someone to serve, 跟, 对…说句好话, 或者与他人共享空间. The more active you are, the better.”

十大网赌平台推荐卫生 offers assistance for seniors, who are especially prone to isolation, through its 老龄化资源中心. Call 603-653-3460 for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling with loneliness and needs immediate help, contact the 自杀 & 危机的生命线 by texting 988 or calling 800-273-8255.

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